Free Relationship Check-in tool for Couples
Stop guessing. Use the Relationship Checkin to get an instant, 10-minute snapshot of your relationship health. It's gentle, totally private, and only unlocks when you and your partner are mutually ready.
Start Your Free 10-Minute Check-inOverall Alignment
72% (Good)Why even strong relationships feel out of sync.
It's rarely one big event that causes distance. It's the silent accumulation of unspoken assumptions, missed signals, and the busyness of life over time.
The Silent Drift
Without regular emotional maintenance, parallel lives slowly diverge. You become efficient roommates rather than intimate partners.
The Filter Effect
We often edit our true feelings to avoid conflict or burdening our partner, leaving important needs unsaid and unmet.
The Assumption Gap
"I thought you knew." We expect our partners to mind-read. This gap between expectation and reality breeds resentment.
The bridge back to understanding.
We built a safe space to be honest. By removing the pressure of face-to-face confrontation, we help you express what really matters, turning vague feelings into clear, actionable insights.
Guided Reflection
Scientifically backed questions covering all aspects of your relationship.
Asynchronous & Safe
Answer when you feel ready. No on-the-spot pressure to perform.
Visual Clarity
See where you align and where you miss, instantly visualized.
Private
Your partner doesn't see your specific answers, only the shared analysis and alignment points.
Three steps to clarity.
You Answer
Answer 20 gentle questions about how you're feeling. It takes 10 minutes, it's completely private, and just for you.
Invite Your Partner
Share a unique, private link. Your partner completes their check-in separately on their own device, in their own time.
Mutual Unlock
Full analysis is unlocked only after both partners complete the check-in. Your partner won't see your specific answers—just the shared insights and actionable next steps for each of you.